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First of all, let me say straight up, I’m all in favour of fathers taking responsibility and paying child support for their children. Thats not the issue. My Question is: Where to draw the line? How much is too much?

My ex pays so much child support to his ex-wife and 4 children, that he doesnt have enough money to buy himself a cup of coffee. He struggles to contribute his share of our own living expenses, and often I am left to pay all the rent, food, bills etc, which is seriously impacting on my own financial stability. We live precariously, from pay to pay… Meanwhile, his ex enrols his kids in ballet, numerous sports, scuba diving, piano lessons, go-cart racing, holiday to England, now planning holiday to Bali… the list goes on and on. But he cant afford to take me on a date to the movies, or out for a cheap meal, or even away for the weekend… I always pay! But he’s happy to conrtibute to a holiday to Bali for his ex and 4 kids! Its just not fair!

Yes, I knew he had kids, and yes I expected he would pay child support… but this much? voluntarily? (there is no set amount by the courts, his ex-wife and kids live in another country).

When we first met, he was penniless, after his wife had taken him to the cleaners in divorce court, took the house, family business, car, everything. He was unemployed, and not paying child support. I supported him and helped him get back on his feet, and now he pays every spare cent to his ex. She just keeps demanding, and he gives in, out of guilt for leaving his kids I suppose.

But my generosity and support for him are being taken for granted, and Im not happy with the situation at all. I’ve tried to talk to him, tell him I’m broke and can’t afford to keep paying, and Im tired of never being able to go out together unless I pay for it. But he just gets defensive and angry at me, like Im trying to say his kids arent important. Of course they are! But is the ballet, scuba diving, motor car sports, trip to Bali really an essential requirement for them?
Add: And when we fly to their country (usually budged and saved by me) so he can see his kids, I have to stay in the hotel, whilst he takes his ex and kids out for dinner, because SHE wont allow me to be around them!
To The Mrs – my ex is not taking me on dates. lol. Im saying MY HUSBAND cannot afford to take me on a date, for dinner or even a cup of coffee!
to Kiss This… yes I know he has to pay child support. like i said earlier, thats not the issue. The issue is that his kids are TOTALLY SPOILT with expensive hobbies, toys, overseas holidays etc, much much more than the average child gets. And his greedy ex-wife just keeps on demanding more. And.. she’s already rich! She’s got the house, cars, business etc. Whilst my husband and I are totally struggling to keep up with it. All I want is for my husband to see reason.. and to not bankrupt us by his generosity to his kids.

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